Saturday, June 27, 2009

Feis Secrets

Today, we spent the day at the Utah State Feis with our beautiful daughters. I am so proud of them and all the hard work they put into being prepared for the competition.

This was Nicole's first Feis ever! After years of watching sisters compete, she finally got her shot! She did great! She competed in the Reel and the Light Jig. She tied for 2nd place in her Reel and received 4th in her Light Jig. Then she promptly removed her wig, her dress, and her shoes and assumed her usual role of hangin' out with Grandma.
Sariah's group was huge this year! Her Reel alone had almost 20 girls! It was her first dance of the day and she nailed it! Even with such steep competition, she walked away with a Fourth Place medal! She had a great day! Jade, one of her great friends from class, spent the day together dancing and laughing. What I am the most proud of her for was her willingness to step in for a fellow dancer. She danced the 3-Hand with Emily and Abby in a level 2 groups above her own. Even though she was in such an older group, she did awesome and her team won 3rd for that dance.
This year was fantastic for Emily. She has been working so hard with Irish. Her kicks have gotten really high and she can now stay high on her toes for the whole day. She looked beautiful while she was dancing. She took 3rd Place in the Light Jig, the Slip Jig, and the 3-Hand. She and her wonderful partner Grace also took 6th (in a very large group... I didn't even count!) for the 2-Hand. I think they were jipped! I don't usually complain about the judging, but Grace and Emily were fantastic. It gave me chills to watch them! They were perfectly in sync with one another. At one point, I was watching them from the profile, and it was like there was only one dancer. They were right together. The exact step, the exact placement of feet, the exact height on their toes and kicks. There leaps were wonderful and in perfect alignment. I thought for sure they would be in the top two even with so much competition. Grace's mom and I both felt this way, but our girls were such great sports about it! It was like they were being the example to us. I was also supper impressed with how responsible Emily is getting. We arrived at the Feis and for the first time, I was informed that there was one dance that she was to dance in shorts and a t-shirt instead of her dress. I was worried that we were unprepared, but she had been told in class what she needed and PACKED IT HERSELF! WOW! She is so proud of herself. And really excited, because her success means that she has moved up a level in all her dances except the Single Jig. This means she can now officially begin hardshoe and get fitted for her Team Dress! Go Em! You totally rock!
That leaves only my sweet little two-year-old. She was pretty great considering she had to wake up early and spend the entire day at the competition. When Nicole went to pick up her first trophy, Grace saw them all on the table and announced that she needed a trophy. Grandma took pity on the future dancer and awarded her the Shamrock Cup for the Under 3 Division. She carried the cup around all day calling it her Trophy Cup. She even had me take a picture of her with it!
I do have to say, she will make a beautiful Irish Dancer in just a few years.... when she can grow into the hair!
So now that the competition is over, the girls can rest.
Well for about a week... then back to practicing 100 minutes a week to prepare for Boise!

Pssst: I guess I should have told you the biggest secret. FEIS is pronounced fesh. Plural is Feiseanna. Just so you know :)

Thursday, May 28, 2009

It's the Most Wonderful Time of the Year

It's the hap-happiest season of all!
With great sunshine greetings
And Popsicle eatings when friends come to call
It's the hap-happiest season of all!
The pool is now open
My skin's good for toastin'
And playing around in the sun
There be happy cute stories
And tales of the glories
Of summers long, long ago
It's the most wonderful time of the year
There be much noodle splashing
And kids will be dashing
To to get to the pool so near
It's the most wonderful time of the year!

Summer is my favorite time of year! And yesterday, it officially began! We spent our first day at the pool. When I walked through the gates and saw the pool, I sighed. So glad to be back!





After about an hour at the pool, Gracie and I have this conversation:

G: "Ready go home?"

Me: "Are you ready?"

G: "No! I stay alllll day!"

She's my kinda girl!

Thursday, May 21, 2009

Well...

"And when they had plated a crown of thorns, they put it upon his head, and a reed in his right hand: and they bowed the knee before him, and mocked him, saying, "Hail, King of the Jews!" And they spit upon him, and took the reed, and smote him on the head. And after they mocked him, they led him away to be crucified"-- Matthew 27: 29-31

I suppose I don't truly know what it means to be striped of rank or honors...

What's the Secret Difference

Lately, I have been wondering what the difference is between humbling and degrading. In my mind the former has always been a kinder gentler word. Denoting a kind of love or caring behind the action. Whereas degrading has always been meaner. Representing a bit of malice behind the action. I guess I always really considered these two words to be different. But the reality is that they mean the same thing.

According to Webster, Degrading means:
a: to lower in grade, rank, or status : demote
b: to strip of rank or honors
c: to lower to an inferior or less effective level
d: to scale down in desirability

Online dictionaries define humbling as:
a: Low in rank, quality, or station; unpretentious or lowly
b:To give a lower condition or station
c: To bring low; to reduce the power, independence, or
exaltation of; to lower; to abase; to humiliate.

And of course, one of the top synonyms for humbling is ..... DEGRADING.

So, really what is the difference. Have I been wrong all these years? Or does the intent of the actions really dictate the choice of words? And when do you move from "humbling" to "degrading"?

I suppose it all comes down to pride. Doesn't it always? If you can strip away all your pride then trials and difficulties can be seen as humbling experiences. A reminder that someone more powerful than you is guiding your ship. But if you keep any of that pride then really the trials just seem degrading.

So tell me, how do I manage to strip away all the pride in my heart and still keep a sense of self worth? How do you let humbling experiences lower you in rank or station but still keep the quality of the person you are? How can you let these experiences remind you that your power is all in the Lord and not scale down your desirability of character? But instead be used to strengthen you and cause you to be more valuable?

I don't really expect any of you to have the answers. I think this is a timeless question with an individualized answer for each person. I just hope I can find mine soon.

Sunday, May 17, 2009

Go Mommy Go! You can Do it! Goooo Mommy!

I had this thought running through my head at about the ninth mile! Just had to share my "souvenir" from this day: